Writing a Fantastic Eulogy for a Loved One

Posted on February 1, 2021 by Conner-Bowman Funeral Home under funeral home
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When you’re asked to give a eulogy for a loved one at a funeral home in Glade Hill, VA, your first response may be to say that you can’t do it and try to hand it off to someone else to do. Giving a eulogy may make you feel nervous because you will be up and speaking in front of people, some of whom you know and some you don’t.

However, being asked to give a eulogy at a loved one’s funeral is a great testimony to the strength of your relationship with them and the history that the two of you shared. This is your opportunity to share your loved one with everyone else. It’s a chance to honor them and the impact they made, not only on you, but everyone else around them.

So, how do you put together a fantastic eulogy?

You might be tempted to just sit down and bang your loved one’s eulogy at. Three hours later, you will likely be staring at a blank screen because you have so much to say and don’t know where to start.

So, the first thing that you’ll want to do is to write down some ideas about how you’d like the eulogy for your loved one to go. Think about the stories of your loved one that shine most brightly in your memories and the stories you want to tell about them.

By doing this, you will be able to find a theme that runs through the stories. It may be the theme of your loved one’s sense of humor, of their kindness, of their thoughtfulness, of their service to others, of their gentleness in every situation.

Whatever theme resonates most deeply with you will be the thread that all your stories will have in them. Once you’ve decided on a theme, then you will be able to talk about and give examples of how your loved one fits into that theme.

A fantastic eulogy has an introduction that draws people in. To get people’s attention with your loved one’s eulogy, you want to tell a story that evokes strong emotion about your loved one. Using humor is okay, but don’t make the humor at your loved one’s expense.

Don’t tell confidential information and don’t betray any trust that your loved one put in you. Your eulogy should have a lot of details about your loved one’s life that highlight why their life made a difference and why they will be missed.

Avoid focusing on just listing all their accomplishments and achievements (most of which will be included in the obituary or everyone who is at the funeral already knows about). Instead, incorporate your stories so that people get to see a side of your loved one they may not have known about.

Let your other family members know what theme you’re going to use in your loved one’s eulogy. Ask them for stories they have about your loved one and that theme. As you listen, you may find exactly the right combination of stories and memories that highlight the aspect of your loved one’s life that your eulogy is focused on.

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A final tip to giving a fantastic eulogy for your loved one is to practice it beforehand. Know the places where you’re going to get emotional and find ways to get through them to finish the eulogy. Emotions are okay, so don’t let that be a reason why you decide you don’t want to do a eulogy for your loved one.

For more information on giving a eulogy for a loved one at a funeral home in Glade Hill, VA, our compassionate and experienced staff at Conner-Bowman Funeral Home & Crematory is here to help.